My difficult year is continuing and I do feel that I am in a repeating pattern where my life is at the moment. So what do we do when that happens? We give our problems to spirit and we allow them to help us. I have fought back on several occasions in the past and but the moment I have surrendered to spirit and asked their help and taken their lead, things always move to a better place and a solution is offered. It is a very difficult thing to do, trusting in something you cannot see, but it is how I live my life right now.
If you are reading this right now then I do expect that you will be going through something or you would not have been lead to this blog. So if you find it hard to let go and give your problems over to spirit why not write them a letter and get it off your chest that way.
The best way to do this is to think about spirit in a way that is familiar to you. This could either be a friend or family member that has passed over. It could be your guide, or a God you prey to, simply anything you believe in. Sit in a comfortable position and think about what you want to say. Have some incense and a candle lit and maybe have a little offering for spirit as well, such as a bowl of water or alcohol as they do like that as well, and some food, something small will do a biscuit or cake, anything you can feed to the birds. Then all you have to do is write the letter. Make sure you outline how the situation is affecting you and what you want them to help you with. The more detailed the better it is and you will probably find you are getting emotional while you write it. Once you have finished it sit for a moment and read it through and make sure it is everything you want to say. Then sign off the letter as if you are writing to a dear friend, which of course is how you should see spirit, because that is exactly who they are to you. Once you have signed the letter, you can keep it in a drawer or bury it in a plant pot or garden. The best way though, is to burn it. Take the candle you have had burning and go to the sink or somewhere else that is safe and set fire to your letter. Gather the ashes and sprinkle them outside your house or put them into a plant pot inside. What I would say is that you should adapt this to your own personal way. Don't be scared to add in a little ritual or say some words, you will find it is nice to add a personal touch in.
So there you have it trusting in spirit and asking for their help, it is very empowering and you will find that ways forward with your situation will come to you, almost out of the blue. Once you have done this, pay attention to your dreams and the signs that spirit may send you, and above all trust them to do what is best for you.
all my love Suzi aka WarriorChick13 xxx xxx x xxx xxx